Our Story
First Meet, Sweet Treat
Ashleigh's good friend Tracy Grabys invited her to an art gallery opening with some of her coworkers. The event was held at Galleri 2987, where she met Tony for the very first time.
A few weeks later, Tracy asked Ashleigh what she thought of him. Although she thought he was pleasant, she was hesitant to date anyone, preferring instead to get to know him more.
As time passed, Ashleigh and Tony attended multiple events with friends, and eventually, Tony asked Ashleigh to get ice cream at Treat Dreams in Ferndale, one of her favorite spots.
Although Galleri 2987 no longer exists, it remains a cherished memory as the place where their journey began.
Opening Day Love
On April 5, 2019, Ashleigh and Tony joined their good friends, Dan and Sara Graham, for a party celebrating the Detroit Tigers' Opening Day. Along with a few more friends, they spent the day hopping between various parties, with the highlight being the rooftop of the Detroit Opera House.
The day was full of fun and laughter, and before heading home, they stopped at Astoria Bakery in Greektown. In competition with the pastries, Tony turned up his own sweetness by telling Ashleigh for the first time, "I love you." They consider this particular day their anniversary.
New Nest, New Norm
Tony worked hard to convince Ashleigh to move in with him and his adorable dog, Ryu, emphasizing perks like a dishwasher, stable internet, and a garage.
Despite her reservations, Ashleigh eventually agreed, excited to start a new chapter together in February 2020. Little did they know that just a month later, COVID-19 would hit, and living together would transform into surviving a global pandemic with 24/7 contact.
The pandemic provided plenty of challenges to navigate; however, facing this tumultuous period, both strengthened their relationship and deepened their bond as they learned to build their lives together.
A Birthday Milestone
On May 3, 2022, just before Ashleigh's birthday, she and Tony moved into their new house—a significant milestone for Ashleigh as it was her first home. The timing of the move made it feel like an incredible birthday present, marking the start of an exciting new chapter.
The house quickly symbolized their growing life together, promising new memories and experiences. The joy of settling into their new space added a special touch to Ashleigh's birthday celebration, making it a memorable occasion for both.
A Christmas Proposal
On Christmas morning, 2023, Tony woke up early, excited to set up a special surprise. Dressed in black to be "ninja-like," he prepared for the big moment.
Ashleigh was awakened by Tony’s unusual appearance for a Christmas morning and asked why he was dressed so early. Realizing how strange it looked, Tony quickly changed back into his bathrobe. Though Ashleigh knew something was off, she had no idea what was coming.
When she walked into the living room, she was greeted by the soft glow of candles arranged all around it. With Ryu by his side, Tony shared his feelings and proposed in front of the Christmas tree, making it a beautiful, unforgettable holiday surprise.
Our Wedding Day
We’re excited to announce that we will celebrate our wedding day at the War Memorial in Grosse Pointe on October 25, 2025.
The War Memorial offers the perfect setting, with its elegance and charm capturing the essence of our journey together. The backdrop of Lake St. Clair, a place filled with many memories and good times over the years, will add a beautiful and personal touch to our special day; we can’t wait to share it with you.
Help Us Plan
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Thank you for being a part of our big day!